It’s Confirmed

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It’s confirmed.  Well, it isn’t good, I mean it’s not that bad but let’s talk about this for a minute.  I’ve got some man belly!  Hey it’s not the end of the world, I’m 43 years old and still in pretty good shape.  I’ve been blessed to be able to stay active for almost my entire life thus far.

I’ve had a few injuries, and almost ten years ago, I suffered from Epstein Barr which is a virus like mono that knocked me out for an entire two years!  But, I was younger then and my metabolism ran like a scolded dog.

Last September I injured myself the way all 40 somethings do.  I ran a hard run in the morning and then after work I moved our children’s bedrooms around by lifting awkwardly shaped, heavy objects by myself, up a spiral staircase.  The next day I was sore and wondered why for a moment until I rewound the day before and figured it out.  It’s been almost a year and I trained injured for a while and then took almost two months totally off from activity.  I’ve been biking and think the injury is finally almost gone so I’m starting to increase how much I’m running and doing.  BUT, yesterday I happened a glance in the mirror after my shower and I could see a little belly fat!  Ok, so you say, big deal, join the club…  I get it.  It’s not the end of the world but it is a change from the norm for me.

I was once in the Ankeny YMCA to do some swim training w/ my coach and ran into a friend named Josh Wandrey.  “Hey Josh, what’s up man?  You training for something specific?”  Josh replied, “Nope, just trying to look good naked.”  You know what they say about sex…  it’s like pizza, some is better than others, but it’s all good.  Now naked bodies might be the exact opposite.  I once heard a talk show host say that it was a shame that what we think looks good and what we think feels good when the lights are off are many times, two different things!  So I’m not saying that I look bad or good or even what we all should look like.  What I’m saying is that my body has changed, I’m less fit, and I’m carrying around some extra weight that isn’t going to help me get back to where I’d like to be.

The plan for the removal of this most unwelcome companion???  The same as any logical, well-thought, incremental plan, slow but steady improvement.  You see, I could freak out and try to cut half my caloric intake and end up lacking energy and probably get sick or injured again.  I could go hog wild on the core/abs work and hurt myself more to the point of not being able to do anything.  I could even just say the heck with it, give up and resign myself to be a normal 43 year old that buys some sweet new clothes that help me feel better.  Instead, I’m going to eat half as many peanut butter cookies as I usually do before bed.  I’m going to do 2 minutes of planks a day.  I’m going to drink one more liter of water a day.  I’m going to keep up on my PT so that my injury doesn’t linger.  And just a few weeks from now, I hope to get a side glance in the mirror and notice that my unwelcome friend has gone home.

Giving 90%,    100% of the time is way better than 180% for two days or two weeks.  It takes positive self talk, disciplined habit making, and a desire to achieve YOUR personal goals and not the goals for most of those around you.

It’s the Fight

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Shout out this morning to one of our own!  He had his dog stolen and missing for two weeks, but was able to find him and bring him home yesterday.  He brought him home 20 lbs. heavier and with a shaved coat and dyed hair.  The dog and owner knew each other no matter the change in appearance.

I love dogs.  I love animals.  For many reasons.  But, I think one of the main reasons is that no matter how old they are or how rough life gets for them, they always seem to keep their same demeanor.  They always love those they’ve always loved.  They always play just like they’ve always played.  And they always seem to be ok even when they might not be.  That’s a hard order for most of us humans for sure.

As Mike got his dog back I got to thinking about that fight that dogs have, the fight that Mike had to find his dog instead of giving up the search, and the fight that we all face daily and for a lifetime.  We’ve all heard the quote, “It’s not the size of the dog in the fight but the size of fight in the dog.”

As we head into Summer, we hope that you can find your “inner dog,” your “inner animal,” and keep your wits about you as you gain motivation to make positive change in your life.  Move more, love more, reassure more, and remind yourself that no matter how old, you still got fight in ya.

Congratulations Mike!

Using Recovery to Dictate Pace

A common question I get when coaching athletes is “how hard” or “how fast,” when speaking to a workout and its effort level.  There are times that I plan a workout w/ specific paces and times so that it is more of a mental challenge along w/ the physical effort.  Other times, I plan workouts that are based on perceived effort so they might have a day to relax mentally and just give a good effort without trying to hit specific times.  I’ve seen persons respond better to one or the other.  For example, I know a woman who was an elite marathoner that made multiple USA teams that only trained by effort.  She never did pace workouts.  She said she gave better/higher effort if she didn’t track pace.  I know other athletes who will fudge a workout and their effort if they don’t have set times and paces.

You probably know which type of athlete you are.  To understand how hard of an effort to give on a workout that doesn’t specify pace, here’s a quick lesson on pacing.  You might use the words “moderate”  “hard” or “fast” and easy for recoveries but if you track the timed efforts and the specified recovery, you’ll know how to approach each workout.

Full Recovery-
If a workout suggests longer amounts of recovery w/ short efforts… GO HARD
When taking full recoveries, the goal is to run fast and get the legs moving.  That increases running economy which helps you run smoother, longer during future efforts and races.

One-to-One Recovery-
If your workout has 1-to-1 recoveries based on time… i.e.- 60 seconds hard/60 seconds easy or 3 min. hard/3 min. easy… GO HARD BUT NEVER SLOWER.  Gauging effort based on whether or not you can maintain the effort/pace is a great way to make sure you don’t go too hard, too soon and die a slow death the second half of your workout.

Incomplete Recovery-
If a workout suggests short amounts of recovery and longer amounts of effort… PACE YOURSELF
The goal of a workout w/ short amounts of recovery is to slowly build lactic acid amounts into your system and allow your body to get better and better at clearing that lactic acid.  Going too hard, too early will only build too much lactic acid that your system won’t be able to clear.  You’ll slow down more and more and gain hardly anything from the workout.

Example:  I’ve been getting workouts with the same interval efforts but with differing amounts of recovery.  20 seconds hard w/ 40 seconds easy is going to be run a bit easier than 20 seconds hard w/ 1:40 easy.  If I have 30 seconds hard with 30 seconds easy, I’ll run them hard but not so hard I die.  If I were to have 30 seconds hard w/ 2 min. easy then my effort would definitely increase as I’d have more time to recover and get ready for the next effort.

Use these rules of thumb in your training and you’ll find that the workouts pay huge dividends.  Just remember,

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One Moment

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As I was threatening our son w/ a spanking because of continued whining, I had to pause and take a moment to step back.  We haven’t given spankings in quite some time.  We’d decided as a family that the goal is to teach our kids the rights and wrongs of expected behavior and not hand out physical punishment.  We do timeouts at the kitchen table or in their bedrooms as a means for them to do exactly what I had to do this morning, take a minute and reflect before proceeding with a more positive plan.

After a pause, I said, “I didn’t mean a spanking, I meant a time out…”  I explained that the whining simply needs to stop and we moved on throughout our morning.  I felt a little silly but more frustrated with myself for threatening instead of teaching.  I’m not the most laid back sort you’ve ever met so thinking before acting is a daily challenge that I continue to work on.  The biggest reason I continue to work on this is those, “moments,” past, present, and future.  The moments that impact others for better or worse.

Running allows us a time to work on these moments.  Hardly any of us run all of our runs w/ others.  That means that we have times where it’s just ourselves with our own inner thoughts.  Those times are ripe for self-reflection, improvement, and pause.  As we breath in and breath out, as we take in our scenery, and as we examine all the daily scenarios that we face, I hope we can remind ourselves that every moment can have a positive or negative impact on others and ourselves.  I hope you do a much better job than I.  And I hope that you find incredible moments where your plans that were hatched from a run on your own, yield wonderful results.

Do Not Conform, Be Transformed

 

9bd0eb61aaf569a9b5564abde58cf146  As we’ve been preparing for our upcoming clinic at the store, we’ve spent a lot of time mulling the intricacies of what makes a successful plan.  Over and over again, we see that it’s not the plan itself but the details that support it.  Those details can be broken into two categories, Your Basic Needs and Your Family.  We all know that if you come from a good family, those Basic Needs are probably being met.  What’s awesome about this is that by taking care to surround yourself with a good family you essentially get two birds with one stone.  Surround yourself with the right people and you’ll find yourself doing more and more of the right things.

Sure, someone can go ahead and try to pump themselves up day after day, trying to imagine that it’s them against the world and that they got this all on their own.  In the end, even the ones that seem to have it all together and appear to be so strong, have a supportive family supporting them.

For children, basic needs would be food, clothing, and shelter.  For athletes, that looks more like eating right, drinking right, sleeping enough, and taking care of their body that they subject hard training to.  Burning the candle at both ends is in our culture’s blood but it doesn’t yield great results for endurance athletes.  Many times, it yields injury, fatigue, burn out, and unachieved goals.  Flipping the script on goals left unattained is done by ensuring that your family has your back.  Does yours?!

In an article found on the Becoming Who You Are website, Hannah Braime lists the 5 Types of People that you want in your tribe.  Surprisingly she includes the nay sayers in that list.  When you think about it, there are some people in your life you might never be able to get away from…  Family, co-workers, professional or academic relationships etc.  If you look through the 5 Types of People and make an honest list of the people you have around you and what type of person they are, you’ll have a great start to figuring out if you’re moving in the right direction.

I got nothing for you when it comes to how you go about populating more people in the first 4 categories and less in the 5th.  Sorry.  What I can tell you is that polite silence can speak volumes.  Decreasing your involvement with those who will bring you down will free up more time to spend with those who can pick you up.  And that doesn’t mean that you can’t bring others along with you.  It means, that you should pay attention to those who either help you out or allow you to help them.  That’s how a team works.  Cutting ties with some (not all) of those who simply won’t be positive isn’t easy but I’d dare to say that it’s necessary.

Being transformed is to change your character or condition.  Conforming is to follow or move over.  If we desired no change, we wouldn’t set goals.  Setting goals is to acknowledge that we desire change, progress, renewed success.  Before you continue to push towards your goals, take a look around you.  Take a look behind you.  Do they got your back?!  Good, now go get em’ tiger!

 

 

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The past few years I’ve been blessed enough to be allowed the opportunity to volunteer with our local high school boy’s track team.  I show up when I can, try to stay out of the way, and offer help where it seems it might be needed.  Mostly, I’ve worked with the athletes on visualization and positive mental tenacity.

As I’ve aged I’ve been able to see more and more the positive effects of being an endurance athlete.  If I’d known then what I know now about endurance, about myself, and about how life seems to be one practice run after another with higher and higher stakes, I might have approached the process w/ less stress and more courage.  When we take away the stress of a time goal and replace it with the goal of pushing ourselves to our capacity to ensure that that capacity continues to increase and strengthen, we begin to feel more empowered and optimistic within ourselves.

This past Saturday night I had a team dinner w/ the track guys prior to a Run Club send off to one of our own who continues to push his own capacity!  Andy is climbing Mt. Everest, “Chomolungma,” this May!  As we had a light-hearted dinner w/ the guys, I made an attempt to not let the significance of the evening be lost and gave each athlete the letter below.

Tonight, after you leave here, there’s another group of people coming in for a going away party. The person of honor is a professor at UNI who will be climbing the North Face of MT. Everest in May. Andy and his cousin will be the first Iowans to climb the North Face and will also be two of less than 50 total persons to ever do so. Ever. He’s a track guy. He ran track for UNI actually. Two weeks ago Andy finished his first 50 Mile Trail Race. But that’s not even the real story here.

He and his cousin are climbing Everest and raising money for Military Veterans who suffer from PTSD. Andy also leads adventure trips for veterans that help them find normalcy in the adventure of the outdoors. He’s using his own motivation to be better, seek adventure, test himself, and be brave to help others do the same.

You see, eventually running won’t be just about how fast you run or what place you finish. Eventually, running will be about the things you learn from running, not the running itself.

Are you willing to run in the wind and rain and snow and cold? Are you tough enough to go one more mile or one more repeat when you’re in pain, tired, or having a rough day? Can you be happy for the teammate that beats you because he set a pr? Can you deal with having a bad race yourself? Can you be humble in victory? Can you win a race and stay motivated to win another?

The lessons learned in running last a lifetime.

When you go to college and have more studies and tests and assignments on your plate than you think you can handle, can you take a breath and remind yourself that you can succeed? When you make a bad decision and need to right your wrongs, can you admit your wrongs and make things right? When you find “the one” are you brave enough to ask her out or ask her “the question?” And when you’re older and you have a wife or child that’s sick or injured, can you be the one they look to not just for support, but for hope and strength. Can you not only motivate yourself, but help others become motivated?

The answer is YES, to all of these. Running teaches you how to take a breath, remind yourself you got this, and succeed. Remember to enjoy the struggle. The struggle is how you get stronger, braver, better. Eventually, those lessons will help you succeed for years to come.

The Power of the Tongue P2

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“There is no human being that has a more profound influence in the outcomes of your life than you. So with that truth in mind; what are you saying about yourself? What are you consistently telling yourself to do?”  Karen Noe

In Part 1 of our two-part post on the power of the tongue we tried to encourage you to start with the easier half of positive talk, the words you speak to those around you.  You see, we talk considerably more within our hearts and minds than we do to those around us.  Consistently speaking positively to ourselves is quite a challenge.

“Positive affirmations should be a part of your daily routine. Post an inspirational phrase on your mirror and repeat it to yourself every morning and every night. Post your goals on the refrigerator and read them out loud everyday.”  Karen Noe

Our college coach is an incredible motivator.  One of the things I’m most appreciative of is that he not only motivated, but that he took the time to teach us how to motivate ourselves.  Many of us have been around a person or a group that is so motivating that we can’t help but get all pumped up and fiery when we are around them.  But when we workout 5 days a week and we’re only around those persons or groups twice a week, that leaves the majority of our workout time up to ourselves.  Coach used many affirmations.  Two of them that I’ve found most important to learn and realize are below:

“If you can see it, you can believe it.  If you can believe it, you can achieve it.”

“Everyday in every way, getting better and better.”

The first teaches the importance of positive self talk.  If we can begin to see ourselves achieving goals that we’ve set for ourselves then we are able to set in motion the process of truly achieving them.  If we never allow ourselves to “see” ourselves in this positive self-light, we will find it very difficult to ever achieve our goals.

The second is an affirmation that I use quite often.  Trying to focus solely on one huge goal is like thinking Rome was built in a day!  While we should always know what our ultimate goal is, we should also allow ourselves to find intermediate goals that are achievable and help us to continue feeling successful and motivated during the process.

In 1999 I qualified for the US Olympic Marathon Trials.  I raced the trials in 2000 while suffering from Epstein Barr, Chronic Fatigue.  Had I simply run the time I achieved to qualify for the trials, I would have been 11th over-all.  Instead, I ran over 15 min. slower and was 59th.  Over the next four years I took two years completely off in order to recover and get healthy enough to simply be able to run easy mileage without sending myself back into another cycle of chronic fatigue.  To dig out of that circumstance took a lot of prayer but also a lot of positive self talk.  “Everyday in every way…” was one of the affirmations I used on a daily basis during my lunch break in the quiet of a private room with just myself.  I used it again at night in the quiet of my bedroom before going to sleep.

We worked on speaking well to others because truthfully, it’s easier for many of us to be nicer to others than it is to be nice to ourselves.  We’re our own worst critics.  But what if we could become our own best advocate instead?!  What if we could speak as positive to ourselves as we do to those around us?  It’s not acceptable to speak harshly to those around us on a regular basis so why do we think it’s ok to speak to ourselves in this manner?!

“It ain’t over yet!”  We’ve learned to speak kindly to others, we can learn to speak kindly to ourselves.  One note written on a scrap piece of paper inside your wallet or purse.  One affirmation you speak to yourself each morning while you shower.  One 10 sec. sliver of time you take to look yourself in the mirror and remind yourself YOU are good! One routine of lifting your head each and every morning before you officially start your day.  YOU can do this!  We all can.

The Power of the Tongue P1

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Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.
Proverbs 18:21

As we move closer and closer into the Spring season many of us will start to feel a little more pressure.  We’ll pick out our A races, set goals for the season, and find that we can’t just put in easy miles of training if we want to achieve those goals.  We’ll increase our intensity and work harder to get better.  But there’s one muscle that many of us have yet to even consider as one of the most important, our tongue.

Let’s be even more specific.  It’s not just the words you let fly out of your mouth that can hurt or heal, tear down, or build up.  It’s the ones that you allow yourself to listen to inside yourself that are just as important.

Before we touch on, “Speaking Goals into Existence,” let’s do a little Spring cleaning. OK, maybe a lot of Spring cleaning. There are many areas of our lives that we could use our tongues in a more positive manner.  The tongue has power and if you think you’ll argue this point, first think about little children.  Being a father of two young children has made me increasingly aware of so many of my own short comings.  For a decade I worked with children in treatment facilities who’d had plenty of harmful arrows shot at them from their parents’ tongues.  Honestly, I find it quite scary to now have a 6 and 7 year old that I’m helping to raise and encourage.  I’ve seen just how quickly I can change the mood and memory of a child by either speaking grace and hope, or anger and blame.  And I’ve done both if I’m being honest.  Therefore, I think and pray on this thing, the tongue, daily.

A great way to start your Spring cleaning is to keep a log just like you would if you were wanting to change your diet.  For two weeks, try to write down and make note of your daily dialogue, with others and with yourself.  Be honest, you can’t change your diet by ignoring those late afternoon cookies and cake and you can’t change your talk if you won’t admit being an asshole to your neighbor whether out loud or inside your mind.  As you start to see a pattern in your talk, identify areas that you can clean up.  First choose the easy ones like not getting so upset about “bad” drivers.  Learn to take a breath before reacting so that you might create a chance to respond positively instead of negatively.  Choose to purposely say something nice to one person each day.  As you peel back those layers you’ll find yourself staring smack dab into the bigger issues of how you talk w/ co-workers, family, friends, and yourself.  You’ll also find yourself beginning to feel more and more positive, powerful, and optimistic.  Just like finishing a major Spring cleaning project in your home.  And once you’re there, affecting others in a positive manner, then you can begin to help yourself become more powerful within yourself as well.

In Part 2 we’ll talk more specifically about positive self talk and speaking goals into existence.  Until then, let’s lay into the task at hand and find others to encourage and raise up.  Speak life to a child,  love to a friend, and hope to a stranger.

 

 

Rest is like Pizza

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They say some things are like pizza, some is better than others but it’s always good.  Rest and recovery falls into that category.  Recently, I was working with a client on adjusting their training plan for coming back from being really sick.  Many times, we want to come back too quickly and find ourselves just able enough to shuffle through a workout.  Even worse, sometimes, we try to start the workout only to find out we don’t have enough energy to even complete it.  Both of those scenarios do nothing to increase our fitness.  Actually, they probably slow down our ability to fully recover.  So we decided to simply have a full day off.  The results were a run that felt great and was much better than we could have hoped.

From time to time I’ve been one to talk about sleep habits.  Our culture is one that continues to push to get more and more done without regard to taking care of our health and well being.  We increase our training volume and intensity by getting up earlier without finding a way to make up for the missed sleep and that is truly a mistake almost every time.  (Unless you already sleep 11 hours a night and now you get 10;)  I wish!  Well planned rest that you use wisely can help you make gains that might not be attainable without the recovery.  Stress + Recover= Progress.  It’s a simple equation that many hide behind the other layers of training like volume, workouts, and cross-training.  However, those all fall within the Stress portion of the equation.

Next week we plan to talk about speaking your goals into existence.  I wanted to first talk about recovery because visualizing when tired or stressed out isn’t the best idea and trying to talk yourself into believing that you can achieve something while not formulating a plan without recovery isn’t either.  Plan those rest days just like you plan your workouts and you’ll soon find that the workouts will go better than you could’ve hoped.  Rest rarely disappoints, just like pizza!

Run for Love

 

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One of my favorite new songs is attached below, “When Love Broke Thru.”  I think I like it so much because it reminds me that if I can act out of love, many things can be overcome.  But if acting out of ignorance, anger, or misunderstanding, many times, those situations only get worse.

Something I love so much about running is that it strips us down to our most simple desires.  I’ve often found myself running with others whom I’d rarely call to hang out with.  However, finding persons to run with at a certain pace for ridiculous distances on cold, dark mornings isn’t the easiest task to accomplish.  Therefore, I’ve had many runs in many different states across the US, over many years, with persons whom I may not be in accordance with concerning political or religious views, their so-called way-of-life, or even their views on morality.  But over and over again I’ve found that running miles of trials with another human being helps us find common ground in a way that few other things can.

Running isn’t easy.  You don’t take time to run, you make time to run.  That means earlier out of bed or later to bed.  It’s a grind.  That sick feeling you get when you wake up early in the dead of winter in the dark… Simple desires.  Run alone or run with someone who helps you feel supported in your endeavors as you support theirs?   Run alone or together?

Psychology Today says, “Love is a desire, not emotional need.”  Finding ourselves in the midst of all kinds of different persons willing to help us strive for our desire to be better, get stronger, hang on a little farther is breathtaking.  It’s unreal when everyone is happy to see you happy.  That’s how runners are.

Adding love to that desire could be life-changing, not just for us, but for all of those around us.  You see, if we’re willing to love across views and opinions because we’ve learned to desire good for those we run with, then we can learn to use love to desire good for others we don’t run with.  Running is my stress relief, my compass, my reset, and my life’s desire.  Not because I ultimately desire to be faster, but because I ultimately desire to be better.  Better for my wife, my kids, my community, and my running mates.  Love on you all,

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